Alyson and I had an appointment with our oncologist (Dr. Hirsch). As you know we were waiting on the results of a test. We got the results in and Alyson got a score of 28, which is a low score, which is very good. She fell in the intermediate range for her chances of having cancer come back in the next 10 years. It works out to about a 15% chance of re-occurrence. This is great news. Dr. Hirsch also said that he does not recommend chemo-therapy for sure while she is pregnant. He just doesn't see any reason to do it now, he also doesn't see why we would have to induce labor before 40 weeks. He also said, and this is where it things get great, that he wants to wait until after Brooks is delivered and do a PET scan to see if there is anymore cancer in her body. If that comes back negative then she WILL NOT have to do anykind of chemo-therapy, however, she may have to do radiation instead. Dr. Hirsch said that we should plan on having a normal birth and normal recovery, which means Alyson will be able to Breast Feed Brooks.
One thought came to my mind, PRAISE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not just because we are getting the answers we are looking for, but simply because that is what he wants from us.
I heard a song that was called "We must Praise". It basically said this: If you're a doctor, you must praise Him. If you're a lawyer, you must praise Him. If you're a teacher,you must praise Him. If you're a student, you must praise Him. If you're a singer,you must praise Him. If you're an athlete, you must praise Him. If you're a cancer patient, you must praise Him. If you're a cancer survivor, you must praise Him. If you're disabled, you must praise Him. If you're an alcoholic, you must praise Him. If you're a parent, you must praise Him. Just Praise Him. No matter your lot in life you must praise Him.
There's a story of a man who went to visit his grandmother, which he did every week. His grandmother was the one who took care of him when his parents were killed in a drug deal gone bad. He really considered her his mother because she was the one that raised him. She was a spiritual women, and she made sure he was too. On this particular day he went to see her. Normally he would walk in and she would be in the kitchen finishing up the meal that they would eat together. This time she was not in the kitchen and when he called for her she did not answer. The house was clean and nothing looked suspicious to him. Maybe she had taken a nap. Just then he began to pray for his grandmother, for no other reason than to just pray for her. He walked into the bedroom and saw that she was still in bed. This was odd because it was the afternoon and she never sleeps this long. Upon inspection he discovered that she had passed in her sleep. After calling an ambulance and all emergency personnel were there, he went outside to be alone. Now most people at this time would begin to cry out of sorrow. Instead he began to praise God out loud, he began singing, praying almost in a frenzy. His friends began to worry about him after doing this for a good twenty minutes. He kept thanking God for her life, for keeping her safe, and for saving her. This man could have done anything when he found out that his beloved grandmother had passed, but he just praised Him. Forget about good or bad circumstances and just praise Him.
I hope that in all situations I will be able to praise Him. Good or bad. I today praise him for his mercy on Alyson and for his mercy on my brother Tim. Tim we are fighting your battle with you. Just praise Him. If my brother lets me I will tell you his story, but until then pray for him to have courage and endurance and wisdom.
I love my wife, my two sons, my family, and my life. I get paid to watch kids play a game that I love. I love being a college basketball coach.
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Blessed Be The Name Of The Lord!
I praise God with you, in all things.
Praise You Lord for the blessings you are pouring out over Aly and Brian!! Your love is amazing!
I am lovin that big bro already and I love the 3rd step prayer!
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